My like, love, loathe list There are so many things over my 51(cough,cough) years that I can add to these lists. Some, of course will be obvious others maybe not so much. I guess it's a great follow up to my previous post, writing a letter to myself. If you haven't seen it, you can… Continue reading MY LIKE, LOVE & LOATHE IT LIST

depression, Fibromyalgia/CFS, Life

Understanding required……….

A few things have come up over the past week or so that I need to verbalize. Someone that doesn't even know me questioned my self esteem. Anyone that does know me can tell you I have never had a self esteem problem. Not that I mean for one minute that I am better than… Continue reading Understanding required……….

depression, Fibromyalgia/CFS, Life

love and money…..

Two things that we all wish for, work for and as humans, Β we need to survive. Β Love and money however, do not always go hand in hand. If anything they can be poles apart when you are talking about relationships. As we grow we all have our own unique opinions on love and what we… Continue reading love and money…..


Broken Hearted

Yesterday I did one of those silly quizzes on Facebook......How many hearts have you broken? Mmmm, it said 121. Now I know I've been around for a while but I can't possibly imagine that I have had 121 men in my life that were ever interested enough for me to break their hearts. If that's… Continue reading Broken Hearted



Hi fellow dreamers! While I was enduring my 36 hours of hell I was doing whatever I could to distract myself from what was happening. One of those things was thinking about this blog. New thoughts, new blog ideas......unfortunately I have forgotten most of them as I was incapable of writing them down, but I… Continue reading Drifted…..


Christmas is…….

With bright eyes and excitement, they gaze upon the tree A visit to see Santa, and climb onto his knee Please Santa can you give me that doll, that book, a toy The wonder that is Christmas for every girl and boy. πŸŒ™β­πŸŽ„


It’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas…..

'Tis the season to be jolly! Or so the carols will tell you. The reality for a lot of people is very different to this. It's a struggle that quite often starts well before the first Christmas tree is ever lit up. For many, Christmas means financial hardship, physical exhaustion and emotional distress. For those… Continue reading It’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas…..


One year!!!

Well, it's been one year since I posted my first blog. How time passes so quickly. So much has happened, so many changes, both good and bad and that ever present revolving door of our lives......people coming and going.....brings me right back to the reason, season, life quote. The most wonderful people have come into… Continue reading One year!!!


The Broken Road

The Broken Road When you lose someone you love They say things will get better You'll adjust and get use to it Yes you will adjust, because you have to Yes things will get better, over time But you will never get use to it It's the quiet moments that will get you The moments… Continue reading The Broken Road

Grief, Life

Grief, Loss and how to recognize it.

At some point in our lives we will all lose someone close to us, it's a reality. Grief affects everyone differently and certainly does not follow a road map. What someone feels is completely different to another and can be at different times also. There are 7 known stages of grieving but they do not… Continue reading Grief, Loss and how to recognize it.